Assessment

Where you can sleep with someone else as long as you are at least 100 miles from home, or as coined by Dan Savage "Monogamish"

Conventional sex.

A strong sexual interest in amputees, Acrotomophiles are also known as "devotees."

Stimulating someone’s anus. This can be done with: finger, mouth, toe, fist, sex toys.

Attraction to women much older than oneself

The medical term for regular difficulty reaching orgasm after sexual stimulation

Removing the penis from the partner's anus followed by its immediate insertion into the mouth

An erotic preference associated with the corresponding erotic target identity inversion, a female's propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought of herself as a male.

An erotic preference associated with the corresponding erotic target identity inversion, a male's propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought of himself as a female.

A variety of sexual activities that range from role-playing, dominance and submission, restraints and a variety of other sexual behaviors. Within the sexual relationships there is a dominant (Dom) and submissive (Sub) partner.

Physical sexual activity, especially sexual penetration, without the use of a condom (originates from the term bareback horse riding, riding without a saddle). To bareback usually is a conscientious and deliberate decision to have penetration without a condom

Bi is an umbrella term, often used in relation to romantic relationships and/or sexual orientation towards more than one gender.

It is a condition that can affect people with male genitals. Basically it’s having an erection without an orgasm, some people find there is a blueish tint to their testicles. It can be uncomfortable.

A condition that can affect people with female genitals, female genital 'blue balls' - swelling and stimulus of the clitoris without orgasm

The practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. Utilising rope, cuffs, bondage tape, or self-adhering bandage.

Mass texting a generic message to try and secure a sexual hook-up.

Umbrella term for consensual nonmonogamy

Sexual stimulation from faeces (poo).

Fantasy, literature, porn which features sex with mythical creatures like leprechauns, Bigfoot and minotaurs, etc.

A person who enjoys watching their partner having sex with another person, sometimes made more pleasurable if the other party doesn't know they are being watched.

Sexual arousal using computer technology, can involve wearing virtual reality equipment or exchanging messages with another person via the internet. Or any sexual activity using the internet.

When it takes an extended period of sexual stimulation for people with male genitalia to reach sexual climax and release semen, for some they can not ejaculate at all.

Having sex in public spaces while people watch.

A dom prefers to be dominant during sex i.e. they may have a sexual relationship with a sub who prefres to be dominated

Is a type of neurotransmitter involved in the feelings and drivers of motivation and reward, it does many things including controls genital reflexes and sexual motivation.

Originally based on the concept of drawing out pleasure by repeatedly bringing oneself to the edge of climaxing and then stopping before orgasm.

Emetophilia being sexually aroused by vomit. An Emetophile is a person who is sexually aroused by vomiting or observing others vomit.

Also known at the 'Flatulence fetish', where people are sexually aroused by farting on someone, or enjoy being farted on (typically on the face, mouth, ear or nose).

Erectile dysfunction is a common problem where a person with male genital finds it hard to get or keep an erection.

a state of asphyxia intentionally induced (as by smothering or strangling oneself) so as to heighten sexual arousal during masturbation.

Another term for erogenous - (of a part of the body) sensitive to sexual stimulation.

is a rare mental health condition that happens when someone is fixated on the idea that another person is intensely in love with them. It is often that the other person may be a celebrity, wealthy, or of a high social position. The condition is also known as De Clérambault’s syndrome.

A person with intense, sexually arousing fantasies, urges or behaviors involving exposure of the individual's genitals to an unsuspecting and nonconsenting stranger.

Any mental imagery that is sexually arousing or erotic to the individual (Leitenberg and Henning 1995)

A term for masturbation. Fapping is based on the onomatopoeia sound of vigorous masturbation.

One who is sexually aroused by feeding their partners and encouraging them to gain weight

A female being the dominant partner in BDSM, sometime referred to as Dominatrix. Frequently interchangeable with 'Top'

A strong sexually response or need or desire for something such as objects, materials, body parts/features, or articles of clothing, that people respond to sexually, and that enhance or facilitate sexual arousal. (sometimes called paraphilias)

Or Gräfenberg area is a few inches inside the vagina that can be highly sensitive to touch when you’re aroused. The G spot is along the front wall of the vagina. Touching the G spot can lead to sexual pleasure and orgasm for some people.

Having a sexual preference for the elderly.

The practice of urinating on another person for sexual pleasure, as part of urolagnia.

often used to refer to men who are attracted to other men, also used more broadly used to refer to anyone attracted to someone of the same sex

Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity - Dominic Davies & Meg-John Barker

A person whose gender identification and presentation is not fixed. This can be fluid between two or more genders.

A societal and cultural construct used to classify a person as masculine or feminine. Gender is different from biological sex, it can be used to describe the identity or characteristics pertained to the person. A person's sex and gender identity can differ.

Being primarily sexually, aesthetically, and/or romantically attracted to femininity.

A sexual orientation in which a person feels physically, romantically, aesthetically and emotionally attracted to people of the opposite sex to their own.

Sometimes used to describe Compulsive Sexual behviour - Hypersexuality is having excessively high thoughts, fantasies, urges, behaviours regarding sexual behaviour. Often causes people distress or negatively affects apsects of their life (work, health, relationships, etc)

Having less libido (sexual desire) than most people, this can cause distress and concern for indiviudals who are experiencing difficulty acheiecing sexual arousal. It is advised to consult your GP as this can be a cause of another sexual dysfunction. NOT to be compared to being asexual, as asexulaity is an orientation whereas hyposexuality is a diagnosis.

A term used to describe a person who is born with the biological attributes (reproductive or sexual anatomy) of both sexes or whose biological attributes do not fit with societal assumptions about what constitutes male or female. Intersex people may identify as male, female or non-binary.

Sex can be many things and kink is an umbrella term for the “unconventional” or non-traditional sexual interests / intimate desires, like bondage or paddling. fetish objects are etc., from which people derive varying forms of pleasure and consensually play-out various forms of desires, fantasies, and scenes.

Enjoyment / sexual arousal relating to enemas.

Refers to a woman who has a romantic and/or sexual orientation towards women. Some non-binary people may also identify with this term.

(tbh this term is very out dated these days) Libido relates to feeling of sexual desire.

An acronym for “lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer” with a "+" sign to recognize the limitless sexual orientations and gender identities, gay, bi, trans, queer, questioning and ace and more.